Thursday, September 23, 2010

Other people's opinions.............

I have never really cared what people say or thought about me......unless they are people who mean something to me.  THOSE are people who's opinions matter to me.  Honestly...that's the best way to live your life.  ya know why? Because you are never gonna be able to please everyone.....so only worry about the people you care about's opinions and your life will be much happier.  Half the battle in life is figuring out who will be there for you when you need them...and who won't, and unfortunately, alot of times, the only way to find this out is to go through a bad experience.  But every experience, good or bad, is a learning experience if you let it be.
Never forget that. And never let anyone's comments or remarks make you feel bad or embarrassed about yourself.    Identify the people you can trust and depend on.....and the rest will take care of itself.  I know this from experience. Those people who I consider friends...know they can trust me with their lives......and I feel the same way about them. But trust is EARNED...not GIVEN.  And "sorry's" don't mean anything if the person has to keep apologizing for the same things over and over. They obviously don't know what the word means if that's the case.
Any way...I have rambled enough for today........later !!

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

7 days

There are 7 days in a week.........no one can be nice all the time...but try to do 3 nice things for people each week.  It can be for a friend, a relative, a co-worker....or a random stranger.....but give it a try. And don't do it to hear the words "Thank You" or to have anyone "owe you one"....just do it to be nice. Not enough of that in the world today